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  • emotional ''vampires''...

    this post is to do with those people who DRAIN YOU...
    SOMETHING in them is irrational and verging of being brain-dead.
    You may 'love' these people,
    they can be wives/husbands relatives friends even neighbours but whoever they are, they DRAIN your life away, with their foolish talk and vile insensitivities...= EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES
    This person makes u feel ''oppressed'' and sometimes very ''depressed'' that is because we have allowed them to feed from our spiritual energy.
    We have become their food-chain... and... they need ''their fix''. Their evil wants food....

    I want to talk about this and get our minds edified over this, cuz it happens so often to be a co-incidence...
    IT NEEDS TO BE SPIRITUALLY ADDRESSED, amen
    ok...
    here goes..
    In the first film called the Matrix, Neo is removed from this Matrix as he asks questions and his friends show him how he was a BATTERY for evil purposes and when he STOPPED BEING THIS BATTERY, he was able to defeat the power of the enemy and live.

    now, putting this film and its message into the same context i wish to show us all how people even near and dear to us can be EMOTIONAL VAMPIRES to us as they LIVE OFF.......................OUR RE-ACTION.... to them
    or
    THEY GET ''THEIR KICKS'' FROM OUR - OVER-RE-ACTION to them
    or
    WE ARE FEEDING THEM WITH OUR ENERGY AND IT IS ADDING TO THEIR VAMPIRE-LIKE QUALITIES.. so that they gain power over us and feed off our life-forces.
    now
    that's a mouthfull hey and i have probably lost 1/2 the readers as they frown and say ''WHATS SHE SAYING''? well... too bad.. i cannot say it any other way.

    its all about POWER....
    the power game
    how one person can so intimidate another, it makes for DIS-HARMONY.... house- holds can be held to ransome by one person playing that power-game of draining others with rage, moods, no speaks, acts of abuses, fault finding, lies, and all manner of inconsiderations...playing evil- games by using emotionalism.

    i was considering this whole subject today and i had the revelation that while we feed these 'monsters' we add to their life-energy and so the hold grows stronger and stronger...over us...
    so
    what to do..

    We need PROTECTION and the only way to protect ourself is TO CUT OFF THEIR FOOD SUPPLY....dont re-act.....neglect them and say
    ''i am sorry u feel this way''
    or
    '' i am sorry to see that reptile brain of yours working overtime''...
    say a sentence over and over and over and over.. dont deviate from that.. and dont be drawn back keep repeating that sentence ...
    and then LEAVE them..walk away.
    drop them and cease to be intimidated ever again.
    what u have just done is stop their supply of energy food from you


    now
    they could be madder, cuz they are in famine conditions.. but pray and dont go back to feeding them.. stop their food supply.
    act by not re-acting
    it is called this
    resist the devil and he shall flee.
    We are told that Christ got tired.... but.. He never let anyone drain HIM of his personal life and power. HE KNEW, how to stop spiritual drainage problems.
    Now
    this shall be hard IF you have been subjected to this vampire-like behaviour and so you have to set your mind as flint and press into the mould of RESISTING... your life force being used up by another for evil.
    No matter who is emotionally abusing you, IF, they lived in the truth, they would never think of this.
    That is why, we have to learn how to stop our life force from being taken away.
    I cannot tell u how important this lesson is to learn..
    it is VITAL
    TO STOP FEEDING THE enemy.

  • #2
    a type of ''spiritual vampires''.

    umm...
    THE TARES, that hover around the wheat.
    The false look-a-likes.....
    who ask, but never understand...
    the pretenders who love to be involved with religion [satan's favourite passtime] but never get changed by a new mind of Messiah and into a NEW AND LIVING CREATION.
    These spiritual drainers are in the millions.... called ... the ever learners but never arrivers.
    watch out for them, disharmony is their game.
    They siddle up to you agree with you then disagee.

    that is their trait
    but TRUE SAINTS maturing in MESSIAH KNOW, the tare is never changed but remains ''agreeing-with you, but still in disagreement.''
    NO divisions,
    is the Truth, as the Spirit of Life flows thru His people, and divine revelation is tested, then accepted and adjusted to as THE TRUTH TAKES A HOLD OF THEM AND CHANGES THEM FROM GLORY TO GLORY amen

    very few people arrive at this GLORY stage... all others have very different agendas... one of DIS-HARMONY and disruption TO the flow of the Holy Spirit.
    WAIT i will; show the beauty of this school

    When the Holy Spirit flows with brethren it has NO stupid intent and no hidden guile....
    The Holy Spirit has classes in His university of the Spirit , so that, each pupil is in the same school... they all learn from the same teacher.. so what their Holy teacher has taught them in grade one, shall match up with grade 12 learners
    why?
    becuase the flow is like a river and this river contains all the same water.... so that the river flows in harmony.
    when dis-harmony comes in.. u immediately KNOW a tare is siddling up... pretending.

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    • #3
      Dont absorb, their 'negative' vibes,

      learn how to withdraw from these people,
      by withdraw i mean .....
      to learn how to do this, even when in their company...
      you can.
      We need to have a complete vitality of the Holy Spirit IN us daily 24/7 and if not,
      let us learn how.. for this is the way Messiah walked as HE WAS NEVER INFUENCED by others, their opinions nor their wrong attitudes.. especially towards HImself.
      People of this world are being drained continually by the ''power takers''...
      the weaker ones, the kinder ones go ''under'' quite easily to continual nagging and bitching.
      1] .....nag - word description
      - to constantly find fault.
      -to scoff
      -to scold
      -to continue to pester.

      2]......bitching word description
      - to endlessly complain
      - to act bad tempered-
      - show contempt for
      - to rage at
      to simply be as unpleasant as possible.

      There are many clues to these people and we have to understand them.
      From when they were quiet small they generally ''ruled the roost over their parents and home'' so to speak and they carry this forewards into adult life.
      The old adage of ''seen and not heard'' was an excellent one, to stop the demands of a child from lacking self control and considerations for others in adult life.
      However
      another reason also -this child was neglected and had to ''throw tantrums'' to get attention.. so this nag is an ATTENTION SEEKER.
      The reason i write on this is to show how much we need to discern these ''power-grabbers'' and the ''attention seekers'' who will create disharmony and make our day unpleasant by bringing a shroud of a death-cloud over our day....
      When they behave this way U CAN BE SURE SIN AND DEATH are there manifesting.
      The Holy Spirit shall point out such people for us, and then... we have to walk by HIS wisdom and DIRECTION, that is ...=.NOT TAKING IN their satanic semen-seed, thrown out to us, and not allowing it to fester out from us, why?
      CUZ IT IS A CON-TRICK trying to draw us back into that death circle of the laws of sin and death.


      know this is a trick of tricks and one of the best ones.. that will sucker us back in under that law of death. BEWARE.. know the devils tricks amen



      on the other side of this

      is the person who will FLOW with us and the Holy Spirit.. in that place all disharmony ceases to be, there is rest there and pleasantness.. a quietness of revelation and divine understanding flowing... called a unity of Spirit... notice this example was when Messiah opened up the scriptures to the 2 men on the road to Emmanus.. they BURNED WITH REVELATIONAL LIFE... AMEN....thats how it is with HIS BRETHREN

      If u find such a person, value them as a ruby, for they are rare as hen's teeth.

      I have highlighted this, because in the presence of such brethren we become rejuvenated.. BROUGHT TO LIFE, by the love that will flow.
      That is exactly what MESSIAH SAYS...= positive changes overtake us as this 'one accord unity' holds such a mystery of glory powers

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      • #4
        cont to cont...

        tonight my son who is a Commercial Pilot and a Capt... went on a course today to re-new his training on ''how to give orders/control to people who disobey''.

        Tonight He was telling his dad and brother how a captain is to 'control' disobedience on aircrafts... AND HOW TO do it successfully.

        dont u think thats a real co-incidence...

        Messiah.. wants us to understand HOW TO BE ABOVE, the carnality of human beings.....their rebellion and their intimidating moods towards others.
        We cannot walk around like washed out soxes, and strinking voilets... just waiting for some carnal control-freak, to aprehend us with their thunder storm mentality.

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        • #5
          If u find such a person, value them as a ruby, for they are rare as hen's teeth.

          If u find such a person,
          value them as a ruby,
          for they are rare as hen's teeth.
          A RUBY, A PERSONAL RUBY, A FRIEND RUBY.. IS NOT a carnal vampire.
          THEY have other foods to eat from called hidden manna, and they DONT WISH to receive their ''life-power'' from other people.
          ''rubies''' are NOT PEOPLE EATERS.
          Proverbs 31, SPEAKS OF SUCH RUBIES.....
          ofcourse
          there are many levels of Truth we all know this...
          BUT A RUBY OF GREAT PRICE,. and more precious than gold is a person who has their soul being fully enclosed into their Holy Spirit.
          This soul, is no longer in deception, but coming out from apostate condition. Her harlot whoring days are coming to an end,. as she finds herself being totally absorbed by her lover, the Holy Spirit.
          she [our soul] is being made ''all together lovely'' as her whole structure is being geared into THE change-over mode.....
          ie
          the caterpillar WILL SAY to the butterfly.... ''atlast we can be together, but, the butterfly says
          ''NO i fly alone, so goodbye old tomb of gloom, now I CAN SOAR into the heavens while you are still earth bound and crawling"

          Those caterpillar days have been numbered and found wanting amen...

          ''Who can find such a virtuous woman [our renewed soul] for her price [ as a saved and redeemed soul] is far above rubies.
          notice
          The heart of her HUSBAND [the Holy spirit richly indwelling in her soul] doth saftely trust in her, so that he shall never need spoil.[ The spiritual man trusts in her amen.. she [the renewed soul] shall only do HIM GOOD [ the spiritual man within] and NO evil all the days of her life = [this ruby has become a true help-meet] .
          This type of person is Messiah's rubies...
          they have such divine wisdom so they THEY GIVE OF THEMSELVES, and never draw strength from manipulation of another, even in the smallest ways. For they have learnt that ''its the little foxes that will spoil the vines.''

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          • #6
            learn how to withdraw from these people,
            by withdraw i mean .....
            to learn how to do this, even when in their company...
            you can.
            We need to have a complete vitality of the Holy Spirit IN us daily 24/7 and if not,
            let us learn how.. for this is the way Messiah walked as HE WAS NEVER INFUENCED by others, their opinions nor their wrong attitudes.. especially towards HImself.
            People of this world are being drained continually by the ''power takers''...
            the weaker ones, the kinder ones go ''under'' quite easily to continual nagging and bitching.
            1] .....nag - word description
            - to constantly find fault.
            -to scoff
            -to scold
            -to continue to pester.

            2]......bitching word description
            - to endlessly complain
            - to act bad tempered-
            - show contempt for
            - to rage at
            to simply be as unpleasant as possible.
            To avoid a person is to "mentally" rid them from your life.
            Are we not to love our neighbors, no matter what?
            When do you choose not to love them?

            You said:
            submit- to surrender to a POWER greater than yourself.
            when we are submitted, we have yielded up our own 'authority' so that the ''higher authority'' shall control us.

            i ask you RicoEL, to think...IF ANOTHER is in control over me, this higher authority i have given them over me, shall LOVE ME ENOUGH, to see that I AM TO EXPECT THE BEST, even if i am failing to understand this whole thing.

            Do u think for one moment MESSIAH LEAVES US IN THE DITCH?

            that is carnal mindedness...
            it is equivalent to saying, ''I BELIEVE YOU MESSIAH, BUT, I HAVE NO HOPE U SHALL SAVE ME. now''.
            so i ask...
            ''WHAT DO U THINK S.A.L.V.A.T.I.O.N. REALLY IS... IF you dont trust HIM TO SAVE U FROM ALL MANNER OF STRIFE.... HOW CAN U TRUST HIM TO SAVE YOUR WHOLE BEING... of spirit soul and body to the uttermost''

            come on... lets stop this religious flesh-thinking INSANITY.That old fashioned brain washing has to cease and we are to walk away from the dead and become ALIVE....
            WHAT IS THIS A.L.I.V.E.?
            it means knowing what to do, divinely in all situations, no matter how they look...
            think of daniel
            think of david
            think of esther
            think of..............many examples of DIVINE INTERVENTIONS AND CARE we have recorded.

            why are we so AFRAID - all because BELIEVING has never been fully established within us.. or frankly = OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THE KING OF GLORY IS virtually .........CRAP...


            ''oh Lucy, how can u be so expressive'' some shall wonder.
            The BODY of MESSIAH Ministry

            I did not CREATE YOU for a certain time.
            I CREATED YOU for ETERNITY.
            I CREATED YOU for ME.
            That is why I SAVED YOU.
            For ME.

            YOUR HUSBAND,
            YHSHWH

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            • #7
              alert....alerting...alerted.

              to the fact that all other people are not OUR god ~!


              When you 'BOW' TO ANOTHER'S authority rather than the GREAT ''I AM'' you bow to bondage.. you bow, to another mere man in chains~!
              Remember
              we all must accept responsibility for WHAT WE BELIEVE~!
              Do i believe that person who wishes me ill by playing the role of a power hungry freaky controller, that is spitting evil out like bullets, deserves my inattention...YES.. i am starving them of their power over me... HIP HIP HURRAH...called resist the devil and he shall flee

              when they recover THEIR senses, i am all ears~!
              ask~!
              do i bow to this 'god' and cow-tow TO evil's wishes for my subjection?
              ummm
              Did MESSIAH, bow to the Pharisee?
              again ask this.....
              DID HE GROVEL FOR '''L.O.V.E's''' sake to defend evil...


              Did He BOW TO Peter's gaffs and pass them off as a joke?
              OFCOURSE NOT~!

              Agape love is not the sickening church love of the masses but a LOVE THAT PRODUCES DIRECTION AND DIVINE AUTHORITY~!

              When we bow down in a vile cowards way, to some old manish DICTATORIAL evil misfit, making them OUR IDOL-god over us,
              .... never forget
              we have lowered ourselves to worship at their feet, they have just become ''our god'' cuz we believed them and their threats~!WE failed to believe the testimony of ''RESIST THE devil and he shall flee''.

              It is to be remembered that those who dare not ''believe''
              have
              no input regarding DIVINE LOVE... their testimony is flawed.

              Caleb entered into the promised land and at his side was Joshua,
              2 men who knew how to love the GREAT 'I AM' correctly
              and
              would NOT BOW DOWN, to the compromisers WHO HAD A BAD REPORT AND WANTED out.

              Bad reporters are never invited to be the ambassadors of the great..... 'I AM'.
              ---------------------------------------
              I cannot 'bow' to your post RicoEL,
              for u are unable to simply BELIEVE,
              but
              have accepted a church view that it is OK to bomb and destroy those wicked enemies.

              HOW CAN U LOVE OR POINT THE FINGER~!

              You see BELIEVING AND LOVING WALK HAND IN HAND.-they are LIKE LOVE BIRDS WHO HAVE HARMONY TOGETHER.

              You ''love'' to justify war/maiming/ defending killing for somehow the end justifies the means in your mind.
              You are in fear... evil imaginations have overtaken you on this whole issue.

              That is the pattern of the vile apostate institution.
              JESUS, Messiah AND MACHINE GUNS ARE ok....in the church- eyes.
              PREACH to THEM, COVNVERT THEM, AND KILL THEM IF NECESSARY.

              Now i know sins we have committed in the past are forgiven under a repentant heart AND THANK GOD FOR THIS.
              we were ALL ONCE so ignorant and a slave to the flesh.
              BUT NOW
              we have been called to live in grace and to die daily to our own will.

              BUT HEY...
              We are not to HAVE A WARPED heathen view still remaining and lingering in us.
              WHEN u said you followed the Torah and had the Holy Spirit....
              That means KILLING IS OUT.... HOLINESS IS IN
              IF u cannot be reconciled to ''thou shalt not kill'' how can u be reconciled TO LOVE.
              I am sorry to be so firm here RicoEL...
              but i cannot stand by and see evil florishing all over and say nothing.
              WRONG IS WRONG....
              never is death to any person an ''acceptable thing''.
              AND REMEMBER THIS great awefull truth...
              whosoever does harm to their enemy in such a fashion, shall harm you, for the whole mind has been corrupted and insanity prevails.

              Never never never DEFEND evil.....by........trying to make it goodness.
              the end,

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              • #8
                Thou Shall Not Kill

                Good Morning Lucy!
                The 6th commandment is "Thou Shall Not Kill". "Kill" should be translated "Murder". Is self defense murder? I think that war could or could not be considered self defense depending upon who starts the attack. What about the people killed (murdered?) that Israel killed by God's direction?

                BTW, I sent you a private message. Did you receive it? Will you please reply?

                Thank you, Lucy.

                Searching for truth,
                Joyful
                MAKE A JOYFUL NOISE UNTO THE LORD

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                • #9
                  Ms. LUCY,
                  I never point the finger at another.
                  I always do, say, and think everything
                  with the accusing finger "pointing" at myself.
                  It has been 30 years since I have killed anyone.
                  I AM FORGIVEN.

                  You had been directing people on how to avoid these "emotional vampires".
                  To avoid a person is to "mentally" rid them from your life.

                  You had told me that there are no "buts"
                  when it comes to LOVING one's neighbor.
                  I asked:
                  Are we not to love our neighbors, no matter what?

                  Then I asked:
                  When do you choose not to love them?

                  I really wanted to know
                  when you knew when to stop LOVING one's neighbor.
                  =-=-=-=-=-=-=

                  JESUS ATTACKED and CURSED the PHARISEES
                  (HE CALLED them, "Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers...")
                  because of the burden they put on HIS PEOPLE.
                  JESUS WAS DEFENDING HIS PEOPLE.

                  Ms. LUCY,
                  I was not attacking or accusing;
                  I was asking a question just as you asked me.

                  LOVE, RICOEL
                  The BODY of MESSIAH Ministry

                  I did not CREATE YOU for a certain time.
                  I CREATED YOU for ETERNITY.
                  I CREATED YOU for ME.
                  That is why I SAVED YOU.
                  For ME.

                  YOUR HUSBAND,
                  YHSHWH

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                  • #10
                    RicoEL, i dont wish to prolong the agony of ''he wrote, she wrote'' ok

                    frankly i hate it very much, but because it is you RicoEL
                    so i will try once more....I shall tell you the truth.

                    IF u dont ''get it'' YOU NEED spiritual RE-PROGRAMMING~!


                    now IN PLAIN ENGLISH...

                    born again BELIEVERS...
                    are to have a QUICKENED LIFE SPIRIT WITHIN THEM...
                    Notice it is called a 'LIFE' spirit
                    a SPIRIT OF LIFE.
                    MEANING
                    to be able to walk in the Spirit of Life.

                    SO WRITE 1000 TIMES on the chalkboard
                    LIFE LIFE LIFE LIFE LIFE LIFE.
                    A LIFE GIVING SPIRIT....richly dwelling within you personally as DIVINE LIFE.


                    when this divine life hapens..........................................................
                    our mind no longer contains a spirit of doubts called ''WHAT IF'S''.
                    IT DOES NOT HAVE EVIL IMAGINATIONS OF HORRORS HAPPENING TO ONE,
                    IT DOES NOT contain images of all ''maybe'' horror pictures of rapes and pillages and defending ones life .etcs
                    IT HAS A MIND THAT THINKS ON LOVELY THINGS, as the N.T. BIBLE based saint is ORDERED TO DO.
                    PLEASANT THINGS,
                    THINGS FROM ABOVE...
                    LIFE-GIVING THINGS...
                    LOVE THINGS....

                    CAN U NOT THINK ON LOVE THINGS RICOEL..
                    I CAN... i can go into love's things so easily.

                    can u not understand HOW LOVE WORKS AND HOW IT BRINGS LIFE TO ALL DEAD THINGS?

                    CAN U NOT UNDERSTAND HOW U SPEAK FORTH LOVE AND EVERYTHING SHALL BLOSSOM AROUND YOU?

                    CAN YOU NOT UNDERSTAND HOW HURT THINGS ARE LOVED BACK TO LIFE AND BECOME FREE TO LOVE AGAIN?

                    CAN U NOT UNDERSTAND HOW YOU CAN WALK INTO A ROOM AND LOVE ENTERS IN WITH YOU AND THE WHOLE ATMOSPHERE IS CHANGED....


                    This NEW type of thinking BEING practiced, RicoEL


                    BELIEVING has to be practiced...
                    FAITH AND HOPE AND KNOWING WE ARE UNDER HIS SHEPHERD-HOOD.. has to be practiced....
                    so
                    when the mind dwells of wars, death, killing and slaying, and all the
                    'what if this happens to me and my family' in the futuristic mind of evil-
                    it is still DWELLING IN DEATH and u r NOT BELIEVING in the divine care of your creator...as per Ps 23 and Ps 91 etc

                    now..
                    I am not blaming you as 99% of people think as u do....the church practices what they preach, namely, killing is ok, under ''certain conditions'' YET CLAIM THE PRINCE OF PEACE IS THEIR KING....SHEEZ.
                    THEY THINK OF
                    ''HOW CAN I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF WHEN ALL OF THESE evil THINGS ARE HAPPENING''....
                    AND THIS ATTITUDE SHALL WORSEN AS THIS WORLD SINKS INTO FULL CORRUPTION................
                    it is A HORRIBLE BURDEN to kill...
                    and i understand u are forgiven, so why not take the next step RicoEL and come out from ''defending death and yourself'' YOU DONT NEED to defend youself and your family you have ALREADY got THE DEFENDER OF TRUTH

                    We suffer from EVIL IMAGINATIONS,
                    by never giving this burden to CHRIST..
                    Math 11 v 28-30...

                    Most people will struggle with this evil power of their own imaginations all because they have been totally unable to BELIEVE THE WORD OF GOD.

                    now... in all tenderness...
                    GIVE AWAY DEATH THINKING OF ALL THOSE WHAT IF'S....
                    when u dwell upon this you create it.. a deceptive death wish mentality.
                    IT HAPPENS...
                    your 'what if's' come to pass = into your life, you created them = they manifest,. they are your thoughts materializing

                    it is a trap...
                    it is a trap
                    it is a trap..... a con and a trick... its gross deception at work.
                    a trap that your mind creates for your own personal situations...
                    you have allowed evil desires and thinking to breed in you, and when this happens it comes to pass like some weird death-wish...
                    plx heed what i am posting..
                    GO READ JOB, that verse that says paraphrased


                    ''those things which i feared the most have come to pass.''


                    dont u see why i striving with you over this, because what u think you will create
                    WE ARE MINI-CREATORS... WHO WILL DIE LIKE MERE MEN....UNLESS....................................................

                    now i am not posting any more replies to you or Joyfull
                    over this whole thread ok

                    i will allow THE TRUTH TO SPEAK FOR ITSELF.... IT NEEDS NO DEFENCE.
                    Allow MESSIAH just to care for you..
                    let HIM BE the keeper and the carer in SOUL/SOLE responsibility OVER YOU and yours.

                    RicoEL, I tell
                    mainly from my life experiences, i show forth HOW NOT TO BE TRAPPED as i was trapped.
                    I tell to help,
                    not to poke fun and jest..
                    but to show how deception is all around us and we can fall so easy into death-traps.
                    death thoughts, and death friends and family, even if we love them..words that PRODUCE death.

                    ALL DEATH has to cease in our lives as HE BREATHES HIS LIFE FORCE INTO US... we are to be LIFE GIVERS..
                    not dead ducks,

                    i am a TELLER only not a teacher...
                    WE ALL HAVE A holy SPIRITUAL TEACHER TO CALL UPON TO GAIN ALL holy WISDOM... amen
                    I am a TELLER, so think of me as a bank...
                    the 'teller' gives out the money FROM A BANK it is up to the person how to use it wisely.
                    Last edited by LucySmith; 05-04-2006, 08:12 PM.

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