Hi Everyone,
My roots on my father's side go back to rock ridge foothills of the Meramec River located between Leasburg and Cuba Missouri. My grandfather farmed the clay rock ridge tops located right next to Lick Creek. It was not easy to make a living on that land.
My grandfather plowed with mules, or should I say that my uncles plowed with the mules, once they were able to catch them. It seemed as if every time that they wanted to work the mules, they would spend half a day chasing those mules over 120 acres in order to corral them. This was an intolerable situation for my grandfather. My grandfather expected his children and his animals to come when he called them.
When the mules were finally caught, my grandfather would place them in the corral, and then my grandfather would take a board and beat those mules unmercifully saying, "I am going to teach you blankety, blank mules to come when I call you." I don't think my grandfather ever learned why his mules would not come when he called them.
Rovivus recently asked: "Dad, how do you teach a dog to sit? Do you command the dog to sit, pushing the rear of the dog down, and then proceed to beat the dog when he gets up? No, you give the dog the command, you make the dog to sit, and then you give the dog a treat." I have never trained a dog, but I suspect that if you want positive results, you had better concentrate on the giving the treats instead of giving punishment.
This is a true statement: Human beings are motivated by both pain and pleasure. Human beings will do more to avoid pain than to receive pleasure. So, our behavior can be modified through pain. How many times did each of us need to experience "hot" before we learned to avoid "hot"? Even so, while pain and fear does have its place in shaping our behavior, lasting change can only take place in our lives when we want the change to take place or when we desire the change. This can take place in our lives only through positive reinforcement.
How do I know that this is true? Well, ask yourself this question? Is the good spirit, which was given to you by your Heavenly Father, a treat or a punishment?
Heartland Christian Academy is abusing my nephew. He is being constantly paddled, and he is not allowed to keep the Sabbath Day in freedom at that institution. I have made several inquires concerning Heartland, and this is what a good friend and counselor told me, "I would not send my dog to that place!"
Recently, the St. Louis Post Dispatch Newspaper ran several articles on the religious reform schools that operate with complete autonomy in the State of Missouri. Missouri places no regulations on these institutions. If you are interested in this issue, here is a link that will take you to some recent articles that have been published in the paper:
The above link will only be active for the next couple of days. Hear are a couple of other links which discuss the issue of Christian Reform Schools in Missouri:
http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/new...dline=A+father's+choice%3A+Dale+Knowlton+sent+his+unruly+sons+to+a+religious+boarding+school,+but+he+now+regrets+t hat+decision[/url]
I do not know how long these links will be active. What do you say, brothers and sisters? How, do we train our adolescents in the way that they should go?
Sincerely, Spying
My roots on my father's side go back to rock ridge foothills of the Meramec River located between Leasburg and Cuba Missouri. My grandfather farmed the clay rock ridge tops located right next to Lick Creek. It was not easy to make a living on that land.
My grandfather plowed with mules, or should I say that my uncles plowed with the mules, once they were able to catch them. It seemed as if every time that they wanted to work the mules, they would spend half a day chasing those mules over 120 acres in order to corral them. This was an intolerable situation for my grandfather. My grandfather expected his children and his animals to come when he called them.
When the mules were finally caught, my grandfather would place them in the corral, and then my grandfather would take a board and beat those mules unmercifully saying, "I am going to teach you blankety, blank mules to come when I call you." I don't think my grandfather ever learned why his mules would not come when he called them.

Rovivus recently asked: "Dad, how do you teach a dog to sit? Do you command the dog to sit, pushing the rear of the dog down, and then proceed to beat the dog when he gets up? No, you give the dog the command, you make the dog to sit, and then you give the dog a treat." I have never trained a dog, but I suspect that if you want positive results, you had better concentrate on the giving the treats instead of giving punishment.
This is a true statement: Human beings are motivated by both pain and pleasure. Human beings will do more to avoid pain than to receive pleasure. So, our behavior can be modified through pain. How many times did each of us need to experience "hot" before we learned to avoid "hot"? Even so, while pain and fear does have its place in shaping our behavior, lasting change can only take place in our lives when we want the change to take place or when we desire the change. This can take place in our lives only through positive reinforcement.
How do I know that this is true? Well, ask yourself this question? Is the good spirit, which was given to you by your Heavenly Father, a treat or a punishment?
Heartland Christian Academy is abusing my nephew. He is being constantly paddled, and he is not allowed to keep the Sabbath Day in freedom at that institution. I have made several inquires concerning Heartland, and this is what a good friend and counselor told me, "I would not send my dog to that place!"
Recently, the St. Louis Post Dispatch Newspaper ran several articles on the religious reform schools that operate with complete autonomy in the State of Missouri. Missouri places no regulations on these institutions. If you are interested in this issue, here is a link that will take you to some recent articles that have been published in the paper:
The above link will only be active for the next couple of days. Hear are a couple of other links which discuss the issue of Christian Reform Schools in Missouri:
http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/new...dline=A+father's+choice%3A+Dale+Knowlton+sent+his+unruly+sons+to+a+religious+boarding+school,+but+he+now+regrets+t hat+decision[/url]
I do not know how long these links will be active. What do you say, brothers and sisters? How, do we train our adolescents in the way that they should go?
Sincerely, Spying
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